Does my cousin like me more than a cousin?
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I never met my cousin until a week ago. I just moved here to FL from PA, so that’s how we met. We talked on the internet for about a year before i moved down here, too. We had a lot in common, we both loved art, wanted to do tattoos, and had some of the same “issues.” He happened to be just getting out of prison when I moved down here, so I went to pick him up so that I could meet him as soon as he got out. After that, he began calling my house at least 5 times a day. He really opens up to me about a lot of his personal issues, too. He also made a deal with me that if I were to quit smoking then he would quit doing drugs. He also says that I am special for being the only person to EVER make him quit. One day he wanted to see me so bad, that he actualy bribed his mom with a tattoo so that I could come over. I went over, and he sat right next to me on the couch the WHOLE 4 hours I was there at his house. He continually kept trying to shake my hand and ask me “what was up” even though that was already discussed. He also hugged me A LOT. The hugging and the handshaking was proceeded by him telling me how he doesn’t trust women and he wants to find a good one. As he went to take me home, he gave me a good 30 second hug, swayed back and forth and said “thanks for coming over, i love you.” Last night after talking to him until my phone died, we met up on the internet and started talking. Then, he had said..”I want to get my dick wet.” He is always telling me about his previous relationships, why they ended, etc. I have noticed that my cousin and I formed a bond really quick, because he is always telling me about his life, personal things about him, and calling often. So..based on what I am saying…does he like me more than a “little cousin.” Please, no rude remarks. I am just as weirded out as anyone reading this will be,so try to understand my situation and answer honestly. thanks.
PS. I AM 18 AND HE IS 27.
ALSO, WOULDN’T HE WANT TO HANG OUT WITH HIS FRIENDS INSTEAD OF TALKING TO ME ON THE PHONE? AFTER ALL, HE JUST GOT OUT OF A 2 YEAR PRISON SENTENCE.
he also made the comment that I was “beautiful on the inside and out.
on the phone, he’ll say “im tired” so I will say, “go get some sleep then dude!” and he’ll say, “oh do you want me to go? do you want me to stay?”
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Answer by Ashley
no offense kidda creepy and stalkerish . if you like him good for u just be smart and if u dont tell him in a gental manner with someone else there cause somtimes people tend to flip . best of luck
Answer by greg volk
WOW that’s messed up, that is a little to much cousin-ey love!! I think he does have a thing for you and it could be fueled by his lack of relationship skills with women… coming from prison and what not.. Now that you are being super nice to him, he is treating you like a girl that he wants to “get with”! His actions and comments are inappropriate and I think you need to do something to slow his infatuation
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I don’t think so, I mean he just got out of prison so he probably feels really close to you but if it makes you feel awkward talk to him about it
and depends how old ya’ll two are, if your ages are close he might like you
but regardless he might just want the feeling of someone caring about him
forget him and move on.
You said that you and your cousin formed a bond really quick, I think it was too quick.
I don’t mean to say that your cousin is insincere. But I do believe that he has certain social issues, and he has thrown you right into the centre of it all. For a younger person that could be a very dangerous place to be. Plus, I am very concerned about the deal he made with you to quit drugs if you quit smoking. He may be able to bite the bullit for awhile, but it is very rare that anyone can quit drugs without serious commitment, and treatment from professionals. The idea that he has made you the reason he quit drugs is also very concerning for me. People don’t successfully quit drugs for other people, they have to do it for themselves. The problem here is, if he decides to start doing drugs again, that will be his choice, but he may decide to blame you for it so he doesn’t have to admit to himself that his choices are his responsibility, not yours or anyone else’s.
I hope you can have enough faith in yourself to trust your own judgement here. If he creeps you out, then that is enough reason why you should stop being around him as much.
I know he’s family and all, but there’s no law that states you have to hang with people you don’t want to.